Girls worth dating

For the most part, my answer has been, “I guess it depends on the guy,” but as I mature and learn more about myself and how relationships work, I realize it’s deeper than that.In some ways, the answer is simplistic, but in many ways it requires serious digging.But for men, that doesn’t immediately disqualify her from being everything we’d want in lust.

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Once again, contrary to pop culture references, it doesn’t take pulling teeth to get a man to fall for a woman.

When we meet a woman that inherently embodies the type of woman we know we could develop a deep, meaningful relationship with, we know what her presence can possibly unlock within us very quickly.

We have sex with women we lust because we want to dig inside of them, and we commit to women we love because we want to explore them throughout.

Hell, some men just don’t even want love in any capacity.

You know, the myth that is propagated on TV shows where panicky grooms blurt out to their best man to save them.

In reality, when a man invests his trust and his love into a woman, it permeates deep into every aspect of his being.

So don’t use “good enough” because that’s a weird and inaccurate pressure to put on yourself.

You didn’t fail on some interpersonal level, you just didn’t find the right match and that’s not easy for women or men.

But that differential is predicated on a man’s desires, not a woman’s worth.

When I look at the text above, I don’t see a man disrespecting a woman, I see a man openly and honestly stating what he is and isn’t looking for.

In a hyper-masculine society, those feelings end up touching the nerve endings of emotions that aren’t very “manly” and it’s scary to have a love penetrate your soul so deeply that it threatens to reveal your true, intrinsic self; the vulnerable self we go to great lengths to conceal.

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