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I think that we as husbands can learn a lot about our wives by just asking what she wants to pray about, and she can learn a lot about us by what we want to pray about.
When husbands are commanded to love their wives, it is with this same “agape” love that is defined for us in I Corinthians 13, and it is an unconditional love based in duty, commitment and action.
When we put together everything we have seen so far, God is saying this in I Peter 3: “Husbands as you live in this sexual relationship with you wife, get to know her, talk to her, understand how she ticks and use this knowledge you gain to love her better.” Guys – God is literally telling us as husbands – “you have to talk to your wife”.
Did you know that God commands you to know your wife?
What does it mean as a Christian husband to know your wife?
But wives’ often want more detail like “was it busy”, “was it stressful”, they want to know about the interpersonal relationships you have at work – it takes some doing for most of us husbands, especially at the end of the day when we don’t feel like talking, but if your wife wants to know, you need to open that up to her.
Some days she may want to talk about the kids, but other days it might be stuff about her mom or her friends.
It might be nothing but stuff she saw on TV that day, but whatever it is, listen and interact. If you are in the car and that means turning off the radio, then do it. We start making small talk with our wives only when we want to have sex – this is a big no-no, and it sets up the idea that you only want talk to your wife when you want sex.
Make sure when you are talking with her that she has your undivided attention. Sometimes it means getting away from the kids – going to your bedroom and just talking (Nothing more). Don’t try to solve all her problems, sometimes just listen. That means as men God has made us natural problem solvers, and sometimes we may need to offer some advice, but other times we do not.
“Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.” – I Peter 3:7(KJV), and in our next post(“12 Ways to honor your wife“) we will talk about what it means to honor your wife.
The English word “dwell” in I Peter 3:7 is a translation of the Greek Word “Sunoikeo” (which is only used here in all the Bible) which is defined by Thayer’s and Smiths Bible dictionary as follows: It was a word commonly used in the Greek language to refer to a man and a woman living in a sexual relationship together, it was used both of men with their wives, as well as men with their mistresses.
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