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Or manipulative sociopaths living vicariously through ‘celebrity’ prisoners?

Fatema Saira Rehman, the woman who wrote to and later married notorious lifer Charles Bronson, once said of her correspondence; “I never expected anything.

Cavendish believes it to be a highly complex issue and agrees that major factors to consider are dependency and control; “Dependence works both ways - financial for many prisoners, particularly those who don't have family ties, as well as emotional.” With regards to the type of women who write to prisoners; “I'll be honest and say that a fair few of the female correspondents are lonely women who often have body-image concerns (many of those whose photos I've seen tend to be overweight.) They feel perhaps that a prisoner is likely to be less judgmental and more appreciative of any support - emotional and/or financial.” For these women, connecting with a man who is locked up for the majority of the day with little else to occupy his time, you’d be forgiven for assuming that the inmate has no choice but to remain faithful.

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Their actions provide a much welcome lifeline, a window to the outside world.

In the UK prisoners can also be placed on a home detention curfew, be expected to permanently reside at a pre-approved address and need to obtain prior permission for a stay of one or more nights at a different address.

(PA) Yet even in platonic cases the lines can get blurred.

Georgina Rigby was 28 and working in the field of drug misuse when an inmate contacted her.

When looking for a partner, the majority of women cite good sense of humour as an essential requirement.

And in the shark infested world of online dating, we assume their only experience of porridge to be the kind found on the breakfast table.

I thought to myself, he's probably got so many women writing to him, he'll throw it away because it doesn't mean a thing.

And I'll go on being a lost soul." On the other side of the pond, psychopathic mass murderer Charles Manson recently called off the wedding to his pen pal, Afton-Elaine Burton after discovering that she was secretly ordering a glass coffin for her intended, with a view to charging spectators after his death.

Alex Cavendish, Social Anthropologist and former prison inmate, says; “In theory, a percentage of all outgoing letters are randomly checked by the censor's department in each prison (usually 10%).

However, if the inmate has been convicted of domestic violence, a sexual offence or stalking/harassment, then all letters are supposed to be read.” a report released only this year on population in UK prison Most of us struggle to identify with the type of woman who would actively search for a partner in prison.

However there are others who are attracted to men who commit extreme acts of violence, such as rape or murder.

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